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If we haven't received your questions within 45 days of your purchase, then we may have to cancel your session without a refund. What our clients have to say about the Soul purpose readings. L.T. from Romania: "Dear Alexandra and Dan, I feel that each time I listen to your reading, there is a new meaning coming out, showing me a new area of work for myself. I began having very strong dreams at night, releasing old things from the past, and also showing me the issues that I still have to release consciously. Your reading was like coming home to myself, acknowledging facts that I knew already, but I couldn't and didn't put them into words before. Thank you! I feel that I have plenty of information for me to work on now, information which will support me in manifesting my true self. My warm thoughts and energies for you both, and light power for your work!" E.M. from Netherlands: "Dear Alexandra and Dan, Thank you so much for your reading! I'm so touched. 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While waiting for the reading, I had a breakthrough. Once I had this breakthrough, the reading came in my email. I was actually moved to tears because it confirmed a lot of what I was thinking and decided upon, but was too afraid to admit to myself up to this point. "For the first time in many years, I have a couple of goals that I can really start working towards, and regardless of what is going on in my life, that is the best feeling. Your interactions were always positive, congenial and respectful, something that has not been the norm in my life as of late." L.M. from United States: "Thank you so much for this session. I have a great feeling of your caring and loving energy whenever I am connected to your work. This session was important and relevant for me to hear at this time. I felt complete resonance with the information. The message was clear and consistent in regard to my life at this time. "I feel close to Saint-Germain, and I love the fact that he is so practical. He tells it like it is. I am Blessed to to have been led to you, Dear Alex & Dan. I will certainly ask you to work with me again. Much Love" P.D. from United States: "Thank you so much for the astrological and Saint-Germain readings. Dan, I found your info very intriguing as it is saying that my soul is saying to relax and have fun and reconnect to ME....and truly as I think over my life I've lost ME in the responsibilities of family and daily living. So I will be contemplating just what that means in the near future. "Alexandra, I do feel that you/Saint-Germain really communicated some very important information about my relationships. Although you don't know me, you both really "know" me! Scary but exciting and thank you so much for sharing your insight with me. To both of you, a huge hug and many kisses, THANKS!" M.G. from Costa Rica: "The session that I received from my beautiful friends, Alex and Dan, was a total confirmation of what my heart has known all along. And the manner, and loving and caring way that Dan speaks throughout the reading gives you a sense of non-judgment and total acceptance. Thank you my dear friend!!! "And, what about Alex and Saint-Germain’s message? I could not only feel Saint-Germain, my guides and angels ALL around me, but I could also feel how each word that Alex pronounced was going directly into my heart and opening me up to experience and manifest my Soul’s Purpose. It was not something subtle, IT WAS POWERFUL !" M.R. from the United Kingdom: "Hello Alexandra and Dan. I have now listened to the recording 3 times and it's really a LOT to take in, but I resonate with all of it. Thank you so much! And I really appreciate all the good information and advice. It was more than perfect. VERY helpful. I felt Dan's astrological reading was very helpful, it put a lot of things into perspective for me. It made a lot of sense too, and has given me clear guidance about how to solve my issues. "Thank you Dan for being so clear and I really felt your kindness and good wishes. Saint-Germain, coming through Alexandria was very loving, very compassionate, a lot of helpful insights for me to work with. I felt the energy of St Germain, and I had very clear information that I know to be true. Thank you for all the blessings that I felt. I highly recommend anyone to use you both for guidance in any area of life. I look forward to working with you both again in the future. Love and appreciation!" R.B. from Netherlands: "Dear Alexandra, Dan and Saint-Germain, Thank you so much for this grand reading and channel! I felt deeply moved and touched in my whole being. Now I do see my Soul's purpose and I am ready to take the step Dan and Saint-Germain mentioned. You both have taken away the veil that covered my perspective on this part of my life to take the step forward and trust my Soul and my Soul's purpose. I look forward to do my 'work' in this. I thank all three of you from the core of my heart for your work, love and support. I love you for being who you are. Lots of love." B.M. from the United States: "Alexandra and Dan, I received and just listened to the reading and message. I am feeling such a sense of deep peace and gratitude! Thank you for the loving, empowering, and freeing messages! I will listen to it all again, as there is so much to take in. But I can tell you that I value very much how your messages make me feel this moment, in my body, on this Earth. I am hopeful and allowing about it all!Both of you have such gentle and loving spirits! I am so happy to have this reading with you! I send you both the very best! Thank you! Love, hugs, and blessings." T.L. from Poland: "Dear Alexandra and Dan, I would like to express my deepest and sincerest gratitude for the reading and channeling you did for me. 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Soul Purpose Readings
"Changing Your Life: Go Beyond Limitations" - A Saint-Germain Channeling
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A Saint-Germain Channeling
By Alexandra and Dan
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This channeling is part of Soul purpose reading with Saint-Germain.
Dear Saint-Germain, for a long time I feel that I have had such trouble finding my path in life. I already gave up my studies three different times, and I feel disoriented, as the pursuit of my needs and interests does not seem to fit with the demands of the modern world. I've been on a spiritual quest and journey back to my true self since last year, and there is nothing else I want more than to pursue this path.
I feel the need to liberate myself totally, and do something that is just as nourishing for myself as it is for others and for the earth. In the past, I've always thought that my passion was music. I started studying music two times, but every time I failed because of my resistance against pressure, judgments, and rigorous structures which such an education brings along.
As I'm letting go of the need to be, or do anything in order to feel valuable, I realize that there is nothing else at this point that takes me to where I want to get in the end. Where am I going next? Thank you for your help.
I AM Saint-Germain.
Here you are dear friend, gaining more clarity about the direction that you want to take in your life. Though it may look as if you are a drifter at this moment, and that you can't really figure out where you are going, what is truly happening is that you are finding your voice among the distractions around you.
It is normal to feel like you do when you break away from a conventional path. Your intuition is strong, and you feel so clearly that there is something more for you out there. Yet, at the same time you find that you are still under the influence of those you grew up with, and the people that have shaped the understanding of your reality for so long. You are undergoing a major change in your life, so don't really underestimate it.
For this reason, this would be a good time for you to find clarity about what you want to do in life, without having the pressure of other people around you, trying to force your hand, or to sway your judgement about what you should do. This is all the more important, since you have not figured out yet how to respond to the distractions that are present around you. No matter what, you should know that you are on the right path, and listening to your intuition is still the best thing you can do for yourself right now.
As you've seen it already in your journey, you've had moments of upheaval and change that have put you on the edge, but it is exactly through these life situations that your new view on life is being shaped. These shifts have helped you to break free from the reality that you were a part of that didn't feel aligned with who you are now.
Inner and Outer Limitations
Now... while you did break free of some limitations in the physical world -- in your outer world, you need to understand that some limitations are still present in your inner world. That's why you may continue to see some old experiences coming back to you, and they will be challenging you through doubt, or through some people in your life that may try to convince you of being on the wrong path.
When you are in such a situation, you will need to remember not to fight and resist. The people (or the situation you are in) only represent an energy that has not matured yet, and is still developing within you. You will need to remember to not be critical toward yourself, but to be kind and gentle, and to trust that in time, you will find your way. Instead of fighting, and trying to convince anyone about what's wrong with what they seem to force on you, remember that YOU are in control. You are the authority in your life, and when you listen to your inner voice, there will be a gentler way to respond.
It's important that you restrain yourself from being either aggressive, or passive-aggressive. Yes, you can assert yourself, but in a positive way. When you know your path in life, you state it to others, and people understand the power of clarity behind your choices. But when you struggle to figure out where you're going, that's when you let yourself fall into conflict. That is when you try to force your view on others, and this only creates possible hurt feelings.
Change Comes From the Inside Out
Certainly this is a journey of a lifetime. It is one that you have to stay on for months, and years, yet please know that the results of your dedication will start showing up eventually. Don't be rash and impulsive, expecting everything to change with one big blast. That is not the way your life changes. It all happens from the inside out, and you are gently delivering your joy into this existence. And if you are not using your energy on conflicts, that energy will be available for more constructive, and creative ways to live your life.
What about your journey of discovering your passion then? Whether it is music, or something different like a spiritual practice, your passion will reveal Who You Are to the world. It is both a journey of learning who you really are, and how to be sharing who you are with others. Whatever the path will be, you only need to remember to be dedicated to this journey. In the end, it doesn't really matter what the journey is about, but it matters that you persevere.
That means, when you need to learn or practice something, you need to put everything into what you are doing. You have to pay attention to the important details, and you have to remember that no matter how hard this work is for you, it will be through the results of your labor that you will experience the greatest satisfactions. Having a structure, following rigorous plans of implementing ideas, sticking to your tasks are all very important skills that you need to develop and practice in this lifetime, no matter what it is that you do. So choose the one thing that speaks truly to your heart now, and then stay with it. Don't give up, even if it feels discouraging at times. Continue to persevere, even if it doesn't look like any results are available soon. Stay with what you do because it matters to you, because you put your heart and your sweat into it.
Feeling Discouraged?
You will feel discouraged at some point, so when you do, or if others try to discourage you then it is time for you to step up, and to speak up for what you believe in. Speak with kindness, with diplomacy, and with an understanding that most of the time, it is people's fear talking to you. But if you speak up this way, you learn to be a promoter of your own good, and of what you love.
Challenges appear in life because you need to move through them. They help you discover that beyond the courage to fight, there is great satisfaction in stating your beliefs to the people you care about, without feeling embarrassed, or like you are a failure in life. Standing for yourself, and meeting these challenges with courage and determination, will help you continue on the path that you have chosen for yourself.
One other important thing to mention about conflicts is that when you deal with them, or with people who disagree with you, it is essential to make sure that you are not entering conflicts because of an old habit, and certainly not because of the love for competition. The competitive side in you, may need to be mastered, and then you can develop this side of you toward the goals that you care about, and not dispersing your resources through conflicts.
When you know who the people are that will awaken the need for conflict in you, retreat in silence, or find something silly to think about that helps disengage you from the conversation, and then let it go. Learn to practice this, and step away when you feel provoked. Inside yourself say NO to complications of such kind, because so much of your energy could go toward creating the things that you love. Otherwise, you will learn the hard way how much energy you have left to create, and manifest the life of your dreams, when all conflict is set aside.
Change Is Happening
Even though it may look as though things aren't so rosy now, and you may worry a lot about how you will move forward, change is happening. Your current situation is only temporary. Just as soon as you decide what is important for you, and then get to work and dedicate yourself fully to it, the obstacles in your life will begin to make way for a new path. It will be important though that whatever you choose, you do it because YOU believe in it, and not because someone that you respect and think high of, is recommending you something to do.
Your belief and determination to do what matters to you will bring about the changes in your circumstances of living. You need to follow your intuition, and to believe in yourself. Be aware of the direction you're taking, reflect on each step along the way, and stay flexible on your journey when you encounter obstacles. It is all part of walking your own path, and as long as you are willing to do it, the dark will turn to light again, and you will find your rewards on this journey.
Remember dear friend that you have many guides and friends at your side. Indeed, I Am Saint-Germain.
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"What Is the Higher Purpose of My Life?" - A Saint-Germain Channeling
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A Saint-Germain Channeling
By Alexandra and Dan
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This channeling is part of Soul purpose reading with Saint-Germain.
Dear Saint-Germain, the pressure of the past few weeks has been the most intense I have ever felt. It's gotten to the point that I actually thought I wouldn't be able to continue my journey through life. Now I realize that I must change the way I am traveling my life path. Part of my problem is this: I feel overwhelmed by shallow, New Age chatter. Instead, I would like to focus on the deeper awareness that my Soul and I are one. To do this, I need to release the belief that as a human being, I am somehow at the bottom of some perfect spiritual hierarchy; and that the only reason I am here is to atone for the many mistakes I have made throughout miserable lifetimes of getting it wrong! What I want to do is to live right here – right now. I need to know that I am not a mistake. I need to know that there has been a Higher Purpose to my life. I need to know that all I have experienced – for better or worse – has value and meaning. Can you help me please?
Dear friend, I AM Saint-Germain.
One of the things that we'd like to address in today's Soul purpose reading for you., is the importance of giving yourself the time that you need to understand and work through the changes that are going on in your life right now. You are now opening doors to the revelation of profound truths in your life, and you need to take this experience and embody it in your whole being.
The fact is, you ARE here on earth now. This IS the overriding focus of your immediate experience, as a spiritual being temporarily taking human form. The simple fact of your BEING present on this planet now, IS the main purpose of your life. You don't need to search for complicated meaning. You are here – at the most fundamental level – just to experience life in this very human expression of yours.
Clearly this may sound too simplistic to a part of you that needs to hear more. Specifically, I am speaking about the mind.
The mind, when under the influence of the ego, is accustomed to hearing wild stories about needing to integrate this or that energy, heal such-and-such a wound, or please a certain group of angels before you can move on to the next level of spiritual realization. The ego places obstacles like these in your path or suggests that they are there, and then promises to remove them from your way if you will simply trust in its protection.
This coercive tactic allows the ego to “take charge” of your spiritual unfolding for you, rather than allowing your mind access to legitimate spiritual guidance by first labeling the ego as the fraud and impostor that it is. Yes, the ego deceptively gains your allegiance through spiritual extortion, but its promise of guidance and protection is phony. Instead, it places a greater connection with your Soul in jeopardy, as long as you believe its lies.
These stories make us chuckle because they are the ego's futile attempts to enslave a mind too willing to accept personality defects as obstacles to spiritual awareness, rather than stepping stones to fully remembering the spirit being THAT YOU ARE and always have been, regardless of your earthly form.
So, don't worry so much about not having a purpose, or that you are missing in any way the purpose of your being here on Earth. You are doing just fine. Please know that going through the experiences that you attract IS a perfectly legitimate path to finding your own and unshakable truth.
By allowing yourself to move through each experience that is revealed to you, you release old wounds and heal your life. At the same time, you achieve great wisdom and life experience. This is all that you have to do. It is also what will elevate you from that place of feeling small and insignificant in this vast world. It will inspire you to explore your Self further and to let go of the stories and falsehoods that your ego has created over time.
To allow your life experiences to flow through you with greater ease and satisfaction, start by creating tranquility. Start by having a warm and loving environment for your body. Start by exploring your emotions in a way that feels safe to you. Start by allowing yourself to feel grounded.
What you can do now is anything that helps your spirit feel connected physically to the earth. Something that creates a state of joy and pleasure while being in the body. It could be something like body movement, or anything else. But it should be something that catalyzes the connection between your body, mind and spirit.
The natural world and everything that connects you to the planet earth is also going to be of assistance to you now, so find ways to be close to the earth. Explore what it is that truly opens your heart, but that also gives you a sense of stability and security. And then, be willing to explore your body and your physicality with the same determination and persistence that you have when you are exploring the world of spirit.
Now let's talk about the way you've been feeling recently. Lately you've been feeling caught between two worlds. Your mind has been divided between believing, on the one hand, that the world of Spirit is real and on the other hand, that there is no such thing as angels, and that you can not receive guidance from such sources of love, compassion, and impartial truth. This split in your mind causes you to feel insecure because it keeps you feeling confused.
What can you do now? First of all you need to come back from your past and just be willing to let go completely of that sense of futility that you've been experiencing lately. Then, allow yourself to understand that you don't have to feel trapped by your life or your circumstances.
Get clear about your intentions and about the choices that you are making about your life right now, and then be fearless in taking a direction that feels right for you. Don't let yourself be deterred by self-doubt or by the fear of what others may think or say about you. You also don't need to fear what you don't know yet. Sometimes, you find the greatest pleasure in discovering and experiencing things that are not familiar to you.
Just give yourself permission to explore now and be willing to look at things that inspire you. You can let go of the fear of being misunderstood by others. Your life is truly just YOURS. And the only person that has to live with it and be happy about it, is YOU.
What else might you need in order to align yourself with your Soul's purpose?
Most importantly, it is to allow yourself to connect with the source of love, compassion, sensibility, and maturity that you possess. You will also need to bring some balance into your life by putting yourself first on your list of priorities. You can no longer ignore the fact that you need to take care of yourself. Listen to your inner voice, because it will tell you what actions you need to take and when. This will create an environment for you to do what feels comfortable and loving to yourself first, but also helpful and loving to others when appropriate.
Again, the natural world can play a very important role in re-balancing your current experiences and perspectives. It can offer you the perfect setting to pause and reflect on your life, and on what you've been going through in the previous years.
Nature is also there to show you how perfect the world can truly be. In Nature, you will also find examples of how to completely surrender to your experiences of life. These examples will help you understand that you don't have to struggle to figure out your journey, but instead that your path will unfold before you in its own way and at the right time.
You will also discover that you don't have to sacrifice anything about yourself that feels authentic or right in order to reach a place of peace and joy. Instead, you only have to let go of self-limiting judgments about what you think you should be or achieve, or what others want you to be or do. This will liberate you from old patterns of living and thinking and allow you to find greater peace in the world because you will feel fully embraced by life.
Indeed, I AM Saint-Germain.
Did you know that your Soul has an important purpose for your family relationships?
You are here to learn how to be and express yourself around your family without any limitations. You don't need to hide who you are, nor do you need to compromise yourself in order to make your family happy. Why is this so? Because there's always a Higher purpose behind living as a Divine human being.
If you would you like to know more about the Soul purpose behind your family relationships, and why you are a part of your family, then please join us on Friday, June 20th for our LIVE channeling with Saint-Germain.
"Are You Stuck in an Imperfect World?" - Saint-Germain Channeling
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A Saint-Germain Channeling
By Alexandra and Dan
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This channeling is part of Soul purpose reading with Saint-Germain.
Dear Saint-Germain, I would like to know how to remain in a joyful state, even though I feel that I am stuck in a sadly imperfect world. Although I have moments when I feel happy, I fall back into a rut again. I especially feel trapped with my job and other obligations. It seems that I must endure them in order to survive, and for no other reason. I feel like I'm running as fast as I can, but getting nowhere. How can I deal with this? Can you help me please?
Dear friend, I AM Saint-Germain.
You ask how you can remain joyful, yet still live in a seemingly imperfect world. I will address this in a moment, but first I would like to share something with you about your talents and gifts – something about your Soul's purpose for you in this lifetime.
You have a gift for uplifting people when you're with them. You're able to shine and be yourself, making those around you feel good. They feel glad to see you and to socialize with you because you have a magnetism that attracts them. You're able to connect at an emotional level with others, which makes them feel comfortable. Yes, you have these gifts – and because of them, people love to be around you.
It's important that you spend some time in silence and learn to appreciate these gifts and how they will allow you to connect with others and share yourself with the world. You are encouraged to explore the way that your energetic gifts are helping you relate to others, and how this empowers you and makes joyful living possible.
Appreciating Your Gifts and Talents
But returning now to your original question about how to live joyfully in an imperfect world – the important thing for you to remember now is that you are here in this lifetime to deal with, among other things, your insistence on doing things your own way. Doing things your own way after timely and proper consideration, and with a healthy acknowledgment of your Soul's guidance and intuition, is well and good. But stubborn inflexibility in getting your own way is merely your ego talking. This is not wisdom. It is foolishness that will hurt you. This is a major life lesson.
You are also here in this lifetime to learn how to take care of the details and to be thorough in all that you do. Paying attention to the details helps you establish structures that will make you feel fulfilled and completed. It's important that you develop, and learn to manage your skills at taking care of the details, because this helps you to be productive and remarkable at what you do, and helps you to achieve the progress that you aim for in your life.
But for you to learn about taking better care of the details, you will have to take some time to understand the gifts that I mentioned you have. The things that you do with ease. I recommend that you spend some time by yourself, thinking about your gifts, and how they attract people to you. Reflect on what happens when people are around you, and how they respond to you. What is attracting them to you? What makes them feel good around you?
There is a part of you that knows what you do, and how to do it. When your heart is open, that brings people to you, but it also brings people together. You may believe that this is a common gift that anyone possesses, yet it is uniquely your gift. And in fact, if you want to find out what it is that you can do in the world to be yourself, you only need to look at those skills that feel easy for you to do, and that you consider to be completely normal to share with others.
You will probably be surprised to find out that these skills are exactly those that make you unique, and that in fact not everyone is able to do the same things that you do. These are the gifts that you can share with other people, and they can serve a larger purpose, as you align yourself to serve your Soul's purpose.
Sometimes the things that you don't even see, because they feel so natural to you, are the gifts that you've been searching for a long time. You're not able to see them because you expect to find something more glamorous. But it is not about the glamor, or about what you think that your gift should be. It is more important that you find that one thing that you are able to do and that comes easy to you. See how this attracts other people into your life.
How Does Feeling Ashamed Block Your Joy?
Part of aligning yourself with your Soul's purpose means for you to assume full responsibility for these gifts. Right now. You can't wait for something to drop out of the sky, as a proposition that someone makes to you. When you take full responsibility for your skills, and agree to follow the voice of your Soul, a new process begins in your life. Through this process you will discover and build your dream and vision for your life.
In this journey of building your new life, you will have to overcome some beliefs that you hold about yourself. One of them is the belief that what others have to say is more important than what you know. This belief comes from a lack of trust in yourself, and it causes you to hold on stubbornly and sometimes unreasonably to having things your way, even when this doesn't make good sense. You are touching old wounds at this time – trying to protect yourself from feeling ashamed, humiliated or inadequate again, rather than looking objectively at what might be the correct thing to do, regardless of who is proposing it. This stubbornness keeps you from being able to explore your true thoughts, feelings, and knowledge. The end result is that you alienate yourself from others and lose sight of your dreams and vision of the world.
This is why you have to face the beliefs that you hold about yourself, and see through them with clarity. When you do that, you will be able to explore your gifts, and what you have available in your life, and finally listen and communicate with your Soul without having the filters of doubt and mistrust. And you will be able to hear the voice that has been speaking to you all this time.
Joy Is Resonating with Your Essence.
If you feel at times that you are impatient or rebellious, and that you can't settle into your experience, you will need to go within and let go of the worry about what others think, or say about you. Your only care should be about what moves you deeply from within. When you explore what happens at the core of you, you will feel empowered, in control, and that you are creating stability in your life.
This is truly important to understand and reflect upon, as it will bring greater understanding and insight about what you are doing in your life, and how you are achieving the goals that you set for yourself. But this has to happen from a place of being comfortable in your own skin; being confident about your abilities; trusting the things that feel very close and personal to you, while at the same time feeling empowered to express joy and gladness around other people.
Not everybody has such a gift as yours. Your ease of being comfortable around people and socializing is not something that everybody has, and you are master in that way. So please acknowledge this mastery, and be willing to approach and explore a way that you can use this great gift that is given to you to serve and be of help to others.
Right now, you don't have to give up everything that you are doing, nor do you need to change everything about your job and work life. It's more important that you find the core – the essence of what you've been doing already for many years in your life. Let this understanding shine through, and let yourself be connected to this essence. Then the ways to bring this forth will appear, and the rest that is not resonant with this core energy of yours will fade away. So remember to bring yourself into the center of your own joy, and of your own connection with what you love.
Try it; experience it; let yourself be completely immersed in it, and then see where it takes you without having to plan everything. Make this a journey of exploration and adventure, and let go of that haunting feeling that you have missed out on something important.
When you are able explore your inner world in such depth that it allows you to experience the freedom and trust to reveal your dreams and visions, then you will feel an immense joy that brings everything to the surface, just like a baby is pushed out of the womb when it's time to be here, and it's time to fully express its life in the world.
Trust that you are guided in your process, and please call for help when you feel that you need to move forward. Even if you feel stuck at times, let that be the experience that it is, and move on from there, finding ways to connect with your joy, your inspiration, and a desire to be yourself.
Indeed, I AM Saint-Germain.
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"Being Decisive and Courageous" - A Saint-Germain Channeling
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A Saint-Germain Channeling
By Alexandra and Dan
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This channeling is part of Soul purpose reading with Saint-Germain.
"Dear Saint-Germain, I’ve always felt unsure of myself. I don’t have enough self-confidence to explore or develop the gifts that I have. I’m intelligent and curious about many different things, but I still don’t know what I’d be good at doing with my life. Instead, I’ve chosen to do what I think will please other people, especially my family members. I would like to be more aligned with my Soul’s purpose for me, but for the moment I feel quite stuck. Can you help me, please?"
My friend, I AM Saint-Germain.
In this lifetime, your Soul’s purpose for you is about learning to apply focus, discipline, and commitment to a field of experience of your choice. But as you know, choosing and then committing also creates challenges for you. The challenge is this: with your intelligent and curious mind, you like lots of broad, varied, and stimulating experiences. And for this reason, you have a tendency to lose your focus, as well as the disciplined follow-through that are required to go deeply into a singular experience of your choosing.
You may also find that you confront significant issues in your life in desiring to be free and independent of others, but also in feeling uncertain about whether you can step away from the shelter, guidance and direction that others – especially family members – have provided for you. These contradictory feelings cause you to swing back-and-forth between feeling overly dependent, and then later needing to break away and be free at all cost.
To counter these tendencies, your Soul is encouraging you to rely more on personal initiative, self-determination and courage. You’re being invited to rise to the challenge of choosing a path and then committing to it in spite of your fear or the uncertainty of the outcome. As you begin to exercise your autonomy and independent nature more, rather than falling back into old patterns of dependency upon others, you will become more aligned with your Soul’s purpose for you. Then you will not feel that you are being held back by others, or concerned that you must always please them before taking care of your own needs.
Decisiveness, Courage and Confidence
Decisiveness and a willingness to act without so much hesitation are qualities that your Soul is encouraging you to develop now. Earlier in this life, or perhaps in former lifetimes, you may have paid too much attention to social convention or the expectations of family members or society. In other words, it may have been more important for you to “fit in” or be liked, rather than stand for your own truths or desires. In the process, you compromised parts of yourself in order to please or accommodate others.
Another issue for you, as you have pointed out, is courage and confidence. Although you may not always feel confident and self-assured when you’re confronted with the need to act; remember that courage is something that you can learn, as you allow yourself to feel the fear and go forward anyway.
In this lifetime, you are called to let conventional roles and habits give way to a more exciting, truthful, and passionate nature. As you dare to follow through on what truly excites you and speaks to your curiosity, you leave behind your tendency to compromise what you want out of life, in order to please or NOT DISPLEASE others.
A Different Perspective
I would like to share with you now a different perspective about what's going on with your life. I would like to help you see that you can live your life confidently and courageously from now on, rather than feeling that you are losing out on something important because you can’t yet see what you’d like to be doing with your life. Instead, I want you to rest assured that you are doing the right thing for yourself, even though it doesn’t seem to be the case right now.
I am calling you to be courageous in looking at yourself now with honesty. Look at the way you feel about yourself and the world. You have to understand that the things that are happening in your life now, are happening for a reason. Nothing that has come your way has been a mistake. Nothing was thrown into your experience to cause you to suffer.
It's important, instead, to understand that every step that you are taking now was well prepared for you. Specifically, you are here to understand how your choices, and everything that you are doing in your life, are right for you. Even if it seems that you’re on the wrong path, this doesn’t mean that you’ve failed to make the right choices. When you can understand this and accept it, you will release the burden of feeling that you have failed – and that you are not able to see the bright horizon of your dreams.
You have to keep the faith and remember that you are being clearly guided by your Soul. You have it’s light before you, and this is showing you the way toward the experiences that are appropriate for you.
Accept this, and be at peace. This will allow you to feel more at ease with yourself, and with the world in general. Then you can be more at ease with the experiences that you are going through, too.
Instead of being overwhelmed by all the things that you think you should try to do in order to feel that you are doing the right thing, it would be better for you to focus more on the one thing that brings you joy, contentment, and emotional satisfaction.
Your nature is very sensitive. You are very open and intuitive, and you have the natural ability to perceive the world through your heightened feeling state. But you have locked away this sensitive side of you by putting barriers around it. You do this in order to protect yourself from the demands that come your way from others, and from the uncertainly and doubt you direct toward yourself that erodes your self-confidence.
From Fogginess to Clarity
Right now, you feel that you are somehow in a fog. You are unable to mentally perceive or formulate the perfectly realistic possibilities that are there for you in life, even though you intuitively know they are there. This confusion is giving you a sense of dissolution; that you are losing touch with the world. But even amidst this confusion, you are still feeling an urge to do something about your life – to be part of an experience that moves you ahead, and liberates you from people and relationships that demand things from you that don’t feel authentically yours.
Please know that I am encouraging you now to continue forward on your journey.
In order to make the decisions that feel right to you now, you are going to have to understand this almost compulsive need you have to be independent to the point of wanting to sever your relationships with others; and the contradictory drive that you maintain which tells you that you have to please others in order to be safe, and which thereby locks you into relationships of dependency upon others.
Remember that your past fears and tendencies will call out to you at times, and tell you that you have to be a dutiful person; that you must be there for others, even to the point of not being able to define who you are or what you’d like to be doing with your own life. But when this happens, also remember that the real challenge – and one that you can courageously and successfully face – is to understand the importance of boundaries in your relationships with others lie, so that you can choose the ones that allow you to express yourself freely, without denying you the closeness with others that you value.
You can go your own way now, breaking away from the expectations you carry from others about how you should live your life. Let go of the self-doubts you have internalized, and release the old, self-defeating images so that you will be free to discover what you truly want. Your soul will guide you in this, and with a nudge it will tell you when to take the next step. Just remember that it's always important to be in touch with the deeper core of yourself – the inner sanctuary of your Soul where you can connect with those things and situation you would like to call into physical manifestation and experience. This is where your true freedom is found, and where you will find the key to your ultimate satisfaction in life
Indeed, I AM Saint-Germain.
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"June Solstice, 2013: Good or Bad News?" - A Saint-Germain Channeling
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A Saint-Germain Channeling
By Alexandra and Dan
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"Dear Saint-Germain, I would like to ask you about how my life is going at this time, and also about how it will evolve during the next few years. It feels like I’ve started a new phase of activity, yet everything continues as before. Right now, I want to align myself with something that would make me feel joyful. Something creative! I want to have a higher purpose, but I have no idea what that might be. Can you help me, please?"
My beloved friend, I AM Saint-Germain.
It’s good that you are addressing your inspiration and creativity today, as the June Solstice and the close proximity of the Full Moon that are upon you are about renewing your commitment to personal creativity and an inspired sense of serving your Soul’s purpose.
This time is about allowing yourself to soar as high as your spiritual wings will carry you, but then coming back down to Earth and doing something tangible with the inspiration that you’ve found.
This is a time when your higher vision can be supported by optimistic, but realistic goals, if you will allow it. Look to the harmonious alignment of Neptune in Pisces, the Sun in Cancer, Jupiter in late Gemini, and Saturn in Scorpio and you will understand the meaning of my statement.
Good news or bad news?
Of course, it’s also likely that at this time, you may not be feeling light, and free, and easy at all. Instead, you may feel that you’re just now emerging from a prolonged period of disruption, chaos, or stagnation that’s been difficult to bear.
Ask yourself, have you felt lately that your dreams and sacrifices have come to nothing at all? Have you felt that you may have over-reached your circumstances or resources, and that everything has fallen down around you as a consequence? Perhaps you have observed that your hopes and willingness to work hard have not matched your available time and energy, and that now you’re feeling exhausted and confused? These are only a few of the many possible manifestations of the energy that has been circulating in recent months.
Well, I have good news for you now.
I’m here to tell you that you can have faith in yourself and in the assistance that is available to you from Spirit at this time. Allow yourself to see the “light at the end of the tunnel” and know that you are on the verge of a spiritual re-awakening.
Know that now you can reconnect with the spiritual ideals that have inspired you, and that you will be able to create workable goals and solutions that will come to fruition in their due time, if you so choose. Look for signs of hope and renewal all around you, and you will certainly find them.
Yes, you will still need to come to terms with your sense of loss or failure. This is inevitable during the closure of any cycle of activity. This is also part of the energies that you are experiencing now and that you are preparing to release.
For example, there may be old hurts and wounded feelings from the past that are seeking your forgiveness. There may even be some bitterness and resentment to contend with. But these can be dealt with now. Look to the positions of Lilith and Chiron in close alignment with the Sun, Jupiter, Saturn and Neptune, and you will see what I mean.
Serving something bigger that just your self-interest.
Now, this information that I am giving is not only for you, but also for all who may be tuning in to this communication at this time or in the future.
With this in mind, I wanted to mention that for you, one of the main ways that you will be motivated to align your human wants and needs with a sense of Soul purpose in life, is to feel that you are able to contribute your skills, talents and interests to the Greater Good. For you, this means living life in a way that you truly enjoy, but in a way that also serves something bigger than just yourself.
You have a strong need to make a creative contribution to the Whole of Life through the application of your knowledge, experience and unique perspective. But in doing this, you will want to help others, too. This will come naturally to you and you will want to honor it.
So, my friend, in meeting your human needs in this lifetime, while also honoring your Soul’s purpose for you, you should assist others in ways that are realistic. This means serving others, without throwing yourself away in servitude or out of a sense of guilt or obligation.
It’s also important to remember that if you are giving to others with selfish or self-serving ends in mind, then this will ultimately work against you. Your Soul’s purpose is not about setting yourself apart from others this way. Rather, it’s about making a creative contribution with your talents, interests, and skills – something that is enjoyable for you and that benefits others, too.
Releasing the old, taking up the new.
Let us look at what we can focus upon now, so that the energy of this time and the shifts and transformation you are going through can be funneled in such a way that you feel excited, joyful and fulfilled. You are coming to a point of completion in your life. You're completing the old journey that you’ve been on, and soon you'll be starting a new sojourn that will feel more personally satisfying and that will give you excellent opportunities to put your talents and interests into service again.
You are looking at your life now, and as you are reviewing it, you are deciding what you will keep and what you will release. As you are doing this, you’re also making room for a new set of intentions that will come into manifestation at their appropriate time. This is a natural cycle. An ebb and flow. Yes, there are certainly doors that are closing for you now – doors of completion. But there is also a door that is opening for you – a door leading to important new desires, as well as a renewal of something connected to your past goals and dreams.
So please understand that it is time to complete the old journey and to allow yourself to take up a new one. The time is approaching for you to set off again, without doubting or judging yourself, and allow yourself to move forward into a grander vision of Who You Really Are. The best thing you can do now to affirm this, is to have faith and trust in yourself. The time will fulfill itself, when it is appropriate.
What is this shift about? It's about you, looking at your life from a different angle. It’s about you, observing yourself from a different perspective. It’s about aligning your human self with your Soul’s purpose for you. Coming into alignment with what you are here to embody and experience on Earth, and what you are here to share with others for the benefit of All.
Be willing to welcome now this new experience into your life – an experience that will deeply nurture and nourish you, and that will make you feel at home within the sanctuary of your own heart and mind. But understand that this will not be a place of passive idleness. Instead, it will also stimulate you in a new way, helping you to see Who You Really Are – a Child of God, and God also – and preparing you to courageously move forward and show yourself in this way.
Leading by serving others.
This will not be about pretentiously “showing off” before others in order to be recognized as someone “special”. This kind of spiritual vanity serves no one at all. Instead, you will come forward joyfully, humbly and with purposeful intent to share your gifts with others.
Because of the deeper understanding that you now possess, you are going to involve yourself in life, once again. But this time you will do it with renewed trust in yourself, and renewed faith in your passion and energy. You are going to assist others in recognizing their own, inherent will-to-goodness. This is a manifestation of Divine Will that will transform your planet from one of chaos and suffering into one of cooperation and lovingkindness.
Are you ready now to step forward again? Are you ready now to lead by serving?
Are you ready to step forward and lead others, not so much by telling them what is right or wrong, but rather by living your life in humble, helpful and earnest service to them? Are you ready to live according to the Love written upon your heart, which is a Truth-aligned way of living that does not condemn others in order to make your point of view right?
If you are ready, then the time truly favors you, and we stand ready to support you in this.
This is our message for you today, my good friend. I AM Saint-Germain.
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“Power and Responsibility” - A Saint-Germain Channeling
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A Saint-Germain Channeling
By Alexandra and Dan
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"Dear Saint-Germain, I’ve always been very perceptive of the feelings of others. When I was a little girl, if I saw another child being treated unkindly, I would find that person another playmate right away. My concern for others has carried over into my adult life. I find that I cannot be truly happy, unless I see that everyone is cared for and feeling good about themselves. Yet, I am afraid of the responsibility. How can I use this sensitivity to help others, without being overwhelmed by the challenges? Thank you."
My good friend, I AM Saint-Germain. Your Soul’s purpose for you in this lifetime is to use your sensitivity and strength of character to help others. But because this is your purpose, you may experience equally powerful insecurities that seem to hold you back and keep you from feeling effective.
For example, part of you may want to step forward and help others who are feeling bad about themselves or disadvantaged in some way; while another part of you may prefer to hold back, fearing how others will judge or perceive you if you intervene. Until you have reconciled this hidden conflict about assuming your personal power and authority in spite of real or perceived opposition, you may find that you undermine your efforts by acting in ways that don’t always reflect your true intentions.
Dear friend, when you are feeling aligned with a sense of Soul Purpose in your life, then you will find that you enjoy empowering others and sharing your time, energies, and resources abundantly with them. Giving and receiving will feel easy and joyful to you, and using your creativity to help others solve their problems will be especially rewarding. Helping others from a position of leadership and authority will feel good, as will collaborating with them as equals. You will discover that your activities bring you material and financial success as you work to build a better world for others.
But when you’re feeling out-of-alignment with a sense of Soul purpose, then issues with authority might start to manifest for you in a number of different ways. For example, when you’re feeling stressed, you might have a tendency to surpass your authority by trying to outmaneuver or manipulate others in order to get ahead or advance your own agenda. On the other hand, if asserting yourself is challenging or frightening to you, then you might undermine your own authority or sabotage your best intentions as a way to escape the dilemma.
Acting with Authority
Yes, I know that you have wondered about the importance of acting with authority in your life in the past. But now you are facing the issue rather directly. Can you be a leader? Can you act with authority before others? Do you have the strength of character, the presence of mind, and the courage of heart to do it?
Right now, it's hard for you to feel that you can be in charge of others – that you can be a leader. I know that there is much doubt in your mind about how you will be perceived.
I know that the way that others perceive you has always been very important to you, and that you have always had insecurities about this.
Your need for approval and your fear of rejection have shadowed you much of your life –just as your desire to help others has also been a constant companion. There is a lot of fear, pain and guilt around this, and it’s keeping you from taking up the leadership position that you desire.
What you have to do is this:
Don't let your past – with its old fears and insecurities, dictate your current response.
Instead, give yourself permission to take on greater responsibility and authority in your life, and then be willing to exercise it in a way that benefits others, too.
Allowing Your Personal Power To Flow
You have to understand the gift that you've been given in this lifetime. You have to understand the privilege and responsibility of personal power. You are gifted with a profound understanding of the nature of human suffering, and confronting this is overwhelming you right now. Yet, if you can acknowledge your fears and just walk beyond them a small distance, you will find that you are able to take a responsible approach to helping others that does not overpower you – but rather, empowers those you are here to assist.
To do this, you will need to let go of your old feelings of anger and helplessness, as you witnessed the pain and suffering of others and yet felt disempowered to do anything about it.
Allow your personal power to flow, instead.
It’s time to let your power and authority flow – instead of dwelling on the challenges. This will free you to assist others in manifesting a better life for themselves.
It's important that you acknowledge your genuine desire to be a leader, communicator and facilitator in this. You are a humanitarian. And this is the core of your intentions and actions in the world, although you may not always see it.
Just be aware of your tendency to fear that you will displease others. Be aware of this, as you step forward and take charge. Know that you can choose differently now. You can lead, teach and assist others now. Yes, you can.
Your presence on the Earth truly matters at this critical time.
When you are willing to orient your life around this and let it make a powerful statement, then the whole Universe will support you in this. Believe it, and it shall be so.
Indeed I AM Saint-Germain.
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“Living with Integrity” - A Saint-Germain Channeling
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A Saint-Germain Channeling
By Alexandra and Dan
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"Dear Saint-Germain, my family is treating my husband with a total lack of respect. It hurts me to witness this. I've tried to forgive them for their interference in our lives, but I find that I cannot. Their continued negativity is preventing me from forgiving them and healing this wound. Can you help me, please?"
Beloved friend, I AM Saint-Germain. Your Soul’s purpose in this lifetime is to live in accord with your highest truth and integrity. Since living this way is so very important to you, you are naturally reacting very strongly to your family’s inappropriate behavior. They have fallen out of integrity with their higher principles, and their actions have made this obvious to you.
You should congratulate yourself for having recognized this, but not give it any more attention. There is little that you can do now without aggravating the situation and entrenching them more deeply in their mistaken convictions.
Instead, you should focus on yourself. In particular, you should be careful not to develop equally strong, self-convincing beliefs about the way things are. Your family has made this mistake already. And while they spend much emotional energy defending their positions, their hearts are suffering for it.
Trusting Your Inner Wisdom.
Why not stay aligned with the Higher Truths that are written on your heart, rather than hiding behind your strong beliefs about what has been done to you? Believing that these transgressions can hurt you, will only make them seem real in your mind. If you listen to your heart, instead, you will remember that you are all Children of God.
To do this effectively, you will need to trust your inner wisdom. What is inner wisdom? Your inner or intuitive wisdom is something that is revealed to you in your feelings and accessed through your heart. It cannot be summoned from the beliefs you have about what has happened to you, nor conjured up from the resentment you may feel because your convictions and principles have been violated.
The more you focus upon this, the more difficulty you will have in healing the betrayal of trust that has taken place between you and your family, and the greater challenges you will face in opening your heart again.
You’ll be convinced that you are right and they are wrong, and you’ll be determined to walk this line with your family to the bitter end. But the intensity of your convictions will also make it difficult for you to heal this situation with compassion and forgiveness, and thereby free yourself to move on.
Blessing, Releasing, and Forgiving.
You are encouraged not to react angrily against your family members based upon this betrayal of your beliefs and principles. These ARE important, it is true. But you may be hiding behind them in an intellectual way in order to protect yourself from the hurt and betrayal that you feel. The anger and bitterness that you feel toward your family are secondary emotions that only mask the deeper feelings of rejection and loss that you are experiencing. This is what needs your healing and forgiveness now.
What might be more productive is to allow yourself to feel and grieve deeply about this – and then to let these difficult family members go with your inner blessing. To bless your family members means to release them to the guidance and direction of their Higher Selves in a way that allows you to move on and live your life with the grace and dignity you desire.
Then if they gain insight into the situation and want to re-establish contact with you, you could try this again, but only if it feels right to you. First, you might want to “test the waters”. This means that you should go back into a relationship with them gradually; discerning the depth of their transformation with caution and without closing your heart to protect your feelings, as you have done in the past.
As long as you hold on to your anger and resentment, you will be unable to process your deeper feelings of hurt, and then offer them the forgiveness, blessing, and release that will heal you. It is through allowing your deeper feelings to reach a point of forgiveness that you will heal yourself, and also leave the door open for a possible reconciliation with your family later, provided that they make significant changes in their attitude and conduct.
For the time being, you must be firm and steadfast in your choice to let these difficult family members go. But please remember to bless them, and then release them to the love and guidance of their Souls and Higher Selves. Doing this will help you disentangle yourself from this situation, and allow you to heal yourself from the ordeal.
What you will discover is that through healing yourself of this emotional wounding and blessing and releasing your family members, you will create the greatest possibility for them to shift, too. You will create a healing path that they can walk on – if they choose – but without the need for you to confront them angrily again.
If they truly belong with you, then they will find their way back on their own… But if not, then it is better to release them with your love and blessings, and heal your own heart.
Living with Integrity.
You are not here to fight their anger with your anger, nor to fight their controlling behavior by controlling them in return.
Instead, you’re here to offer kindness, understanding, and awareness whenever possible – first, to yourself and then to your family members, if they are receptive. In doing this, you will raise yourself to another place of consciousness and silently invite everyone else to do the same.
You will do this with a quiet persistence that is a testimony to your integrity. And then you will step out of conflict once and for all.
This is the message that we have for you today, dear friend. Thank you for allowing us to share it with you. I AM Saint-Germain.
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“Should Marriage Be a Sacrifice?” Saint-Germain Channeling
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A Saint-Germain Channeling
By Alexandra and Dan
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"Dear Saint-Germain, I would like to understand my Soul’s purpose in this lifetime, and whether I can fulfill it by staying in my current marriage. I want to know if this relationship has been nothing but a huge sacrifice for me, and whether it is preventing me from realizing my full potential.
I tend to rely on the opinion of others, so it’s difficult for me to come to an independent conclusion about this matter. But the fact is that I’ve stopped 'giving my all' to this relationship, and I am holding back. I love my husband, but I’m feeling hopelessly dependent and unable to transform this situation for the better. I want to be free. Can you help me?" (Part of Soul purpose reading.)
My friend, I AM Saint-Germain...
Your Soul’s purpose in this lifetime is to to create and commit to interdependent relationships, instead of falling into dependent ones and then needing to break free. This means that challenges will come up in defining your personal boundaries, establishing your responsibilities toward yourself and your partner, and learning to express yourself with care and honesty, but without repressing your feelings.
In addition, your Soul is committed to developing and using your talents and creativity to the fullest. You’re awakening your desire to make a concrete contribution to the world, rather than merely dreaming about it or playing with possibilities. As you move forward with this, you’ll want to encourage your growing sense of individuality and give expression to your wonderful ideas and inspiration. Just remember that as you do this, you’re doing it in support of All That Is – and not just for yourself. This is the essence of interdependence.
Aligning with Your Soul’s Purpose.
In your specific case, when you’re feeling aligned with your Soul’s purpose, you will not confuse your desire for freedom with a need to escape from difficult circumstances. You’ll discover that self-limiting beliefs and doubts no longer hold you back, and that you feel encouraged to express yourself more and more. You will enjoy relating to others – including your husband – in an emotionally honest way, and you’ll see that your enjoyment of freedom is complemented by your willingness to commit to yourself first, and then to the people that matter most to you. You’ll find your greatest freedom in the depth of commitment that you make to yourself and to those whom you love.
When you’re feeling out of alignment with your Soul’s purpose, then you may discover feelings of alienation, dependency or insecurity hidden within you. For example, you may find yourself doubting or criticizing yourself and your abilities, or else doubting and criticizing others in your life, including your husband. When you feel this way, it could create tendencies for you to get angry and withdraw yourself emotionally from your important relationships in order to regain your sense of freedom. However, on the other hand it may cause you to try harder to please others by overcooperating, so that you can get the validation that you need. If you’re not clear with yourself about what’s happening, then you’ll swing back and forth between these two extremes, without ever finding any lasting peace.
Nurture Yourself, Then Let Yourself BE.
What you’re encouraged to do now is to let go of these negative tendencies and to trust your inner guidance to bring this situation to resolution. The problem you are facing in your marriage is this: Your anxiety about who will take care of you is driving you from needless sacrifice and overcooperation, to feeling resentful about being exploited and then seeking independence rebelliously. Rather than swinging back and forth like this, why not take a different approach? Why not look at what nurtures you, instead?
What do I mean by this?
Well, my friend, when you feel nurtured within – that is, when you love and accept yourself fully – then you will feel safe and secure at your deepest core. This will allow your anxiety about relationships to be soothed and comforted. And as a consequence of this blessing, you’ll be less likely to fall into dependency upon others, followed by angry or resentful rebellion.
It’s very important that you experience the caring, sensitive, nurturing side of yourself now. This is the part of you that feels things deeply, yet is having difficulty expressing it. It’s important that you allow this because it holds the key to your well-being. Yes, nurturing yourself now is going to help you in more ways than you might imagine: It will help you heal the wounds of the past; it will allow you to be more self-reliant in the present; and it will gradually replace your fear of the future with a deeper trust in the Child of God that your really ARE.
About Interdependent Love.
When it comes to your relationship with your husband, it's going to be important for you to acknowledge what you appreciate about it. You see, part of your Soul’s purpose in this lifetime is to learn to appreciate a different kind of love. It’s to learn that the peace and lasting comfort of interdependent love – a love that is freely shared between partners – is preferable to the passion and drama of clashing wills or the intensity of impulsive desires in a relationship.
It’s important for you to find ways to calm down, release tension, and allow all forms of beauty and harmony into your relationship. As you grow into a more balanced capacity for interdependence, rather than swinging back and forth between sacrifice and rebellion, you'll discover the joy that deeper commitment can bring into your life.
What you need to understand now, is that you will create the freedom you desire from within first – through a deeper commitment to self-nurturing. This inner foundation will give you the freedom to BE and express All That You Are, even in the most intimate settings. And this is what interdependence is all about.
Indeed, I AM Saint-Germain.
Would you like to know more about your Soul's plan and purpose for your life?
Then please consider having a Soul purpose reading with Saint-Germain.
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